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Friday, January 25, 2013

Oh my....Teenage at 16 so challenging....



Teenage confusion 
(How to Handle?????)

Being a teenager can at times be incredibly confusing and frustrating.
Sometimes the things happening to you, or the things going on inside your head,
 make absolutely no sense.
Teenagers feels frustrated, confused, mad about something, angry with parents, 
angry with themselves...
They just seems 
to have absolutely no control over these feeling....

Yelah...
can't blame them totally....
The brain is trying to switch from 
being a child to being an adult.

Teenagers feel that adults are stupid...
they just can't see how smart we parents are...
They have lots of conflicting messages 
going in their head.. 
all these things can combine to make
 life as a teenager confusing.

Every teenager goes through this, 
The biggest contributor is the new hormones the body is producing, and there is absolutely nothing you can do about them...
Hormones unstable.

Us, parents have been through that process...
 so we can see and feel exactly what it feels like.... luck we made it through...

Age 16 kiranya tahap kritikal kan...
Baru lepas exam... 
got good results...
feels like ohhhh sayalah cerdik pandai...
Feels like on top of the world...
Communication Breakdown....


Setiap anak yg membesar mempunyai 
lain lain perangai...
kadang kala tuu...
nak dapat heart attack jer rasa
bila anak yg ni buat hal begitu...
anak yg tu pula buat hal begini....
so challenging nak handle anak2 remaja ni....
lebih2 lagi when they refuse 
to communicate and
take own action...
aduuuuuuhhhhhhh....
How? Camne nak handle ni.....


Mum punyer prinsip
 dari dulu hingga kini...
ialah....

"No matter how bad you feel today,
 just work to make it through that one day.
Because the next day will be better..."

Hope still boleh digunakan dlm membesar anak2 generasi terkini....

A bit  Emo today....
sorry to post it in my blog...
just nak lepaskan apa yg terbuku di dada...

Thank you for reading....


Assalammulaikum...
Enjoy your Friday guys...

Sue Md


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